You might have used cannabis to relax, watch a movie, hanging out with friends, deal with pain or to get creative. It’s time to see if marijuana can increase sexual pleasure. I am not going to explain why the two mix together because we’ve done it in our post, “Cannabis and Intercourse: How & Why The Two Mingle Together So Well.”

In this post, we’ll focus on how you can set the mood for a night of success. Again, this is from anecdotal evidence, and everyone is different. What I am sharing is what others have done to take full advantage of cannabis when making love. 

Preparing a healthy snack

Sure, you can eat five bags of chips after sex, or you can order donairs and feel bloated. The other option is to step up your game and prepare seasonal fruits and a killer salad. You’re here because you know marijuana must be great for your sex life. Why not eat healthy to compliment a good experience. 

Recommendations:

1. Wash a container of organic strawberries. If you can get pomegranate, you’ll win hearts all over town.  
2. Get lettuce, grape tomatoes, and avocado for your salad. For your sauce, keep it simple with olive oil, sea salt, black peppers and lemon juice.
3. Finally, finish with delicious dark chocolate. Everyone has a preference, but we recommend 70%+ cocoa. 

Again, make sure this is all prepared before you get busy with your lady or gentleman. It’s best to have everything ready because the night/day is just getting started. 

Selecting the right music

You know when you’re elevated, and you’re both looking for good music to listen to? Well, this is a huge mistake because you’re both wasting time looking at your screens when you should be making passionate love while high. Music is subjective, so make sure you make a few playlists. 

Recommendations: 

We’re a little corny so here are a few excellent suggestions:

• Joe – The Love Scene
• LL Cool J- Hey Lover
• Next – Butta Love
• TLC – Red Light Special (Dirty Version)
• Shai – If I Ever Fall In Love
• Keith Sweat- Nobody

I am old school. Don’t judge me 🙂 Give it a try. I bet you’ll both melt into each other when listening to what I am recommending. You can thank me later. 

While making love

This one is obvious, but you need to let go of the world while having sex. Nothing else exists at this moment but the person in front of you. Melt into each other and don’t think. Your bodies will do all the work for you. 

What marijuana will help with is get you both to sync. When you touch each other, the desire to become one increases. Your lovemaking should slowly develop into a passionate euphoria with each minute. 

I am sure you’ve noticed music sounds a lot better while elevated (notice I say elevated and not high. It just sounds a lot better). When you’re making love, the voice of your partner should vibrate through your body and soul. It should feel like the molecules in your body open up and only to the person your having sex with. 

If your partner is a woman, touch her everywhere. Let her feel that you’re the only couple in the world. Women have been known to get better orgasms while elevated on cannabis so take your time. The more she enjoys herself, the more she’ll connect with you. 

If your partner is a man, try to slow him down. Men tend to rush (not all men) to climax. Like the song, Red Light Special by TLC, take control and let your bodies flow. It’s important to let loose because he will notice if your mind is preoccupied. The worst mood-killing feeling is when you notice your partner’s attention is somewhere else. I can’t give you too much here because you’ll have to gauge and understand the man you’re with. A few sessions and you should figure out his spots. 

After making love

You’ve both climaxed. You come back to earth. Your both a little shocked at how amazing the sex was. If you want to impress your partner, talk about the experience. Explore how you both felt. Having sex while elevated on cannabis is exceptional, and we’re all learning. Do everything in steps and trust me because your partner will never forget this night if you stick to what I am recommending. 

For patient lovers, we recommend listening to Rumi or Chopin. Personally, I like Rumi because he will blow both your minds with his incredible poems. Here’s list to get you started: 

• A Gift Of Love
• The best of Chopin
• Besame Mucho – Guitar instrumental 
• Francisco Tárrega – Capricho árabe

Capricho árabe will increase your pleasure senses beyond what I can put into words. The night will get stronger with I just suggested. I highly recommend you listen alone first and you’ll quickly see why I’ve made love to this list dozens of times. 

The movie

If you’ve got the energy, it’s time to relax and watch a movie together. Pick the film before you use marijuana or have sex. I’ll repeat myself, 

“you don’t want to be scrolling through Netflix after doing everything right”. 

You’ll kill the mood. 

Recommendations: 

Love story – For all the lovers

Big Mouth – Absolute comedic genius 

F is for Family – Can’t go wrong with Bill Burr

There will be blood – Slow but very powerful and the acting will blow you away  

Love, Death + Robots – One of my all-time favourites. You won’t regret this one

Black Mirror – Another brilliant series you must put on your list to enjoy

Retiring for the night

The last thing on your list is to sleep. Your bodies got a shot of endorphins for a couple of hours. If you’ve done everything right, you’ll both melt into your bed in no time. 

What do you do

Do you have a secret we don’t know? For the love of God, please share because none of this is supposed to be a secret. Let’s keep our community strong.